Welcome to your free spicy reading!
Today, we're switching it up and getting sexy! I'm helping you connect with your sacral chakra and bring the heat. This reading will put you in touch with your sexual energy and personal power, as well as provide you with tarot messages from your present or potential partner. This is a collective reading, so take what resonates, and leave the rest. I have done my best to create an inclusive experience, leaving out hetero-normality. I'd love to hear your feedback on this one! You can leave questions and comments in the provided box at the bottom of this page, or reach out to me directly Courtney@DeerbornIntuitive.com
As you look at the piles A-D, listen to your intuition. Which pile do you feel a pull from? Don’t second guess it! If you’re having trouble, ask your Spirit Guides to come in and help with your decision.
When you’re ready, you may click on your pile, or scroll down to find yours… Thank you for taking part in this pick-a-pile reading!
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Courtney Deerborn
Pile A
Pile B
Pile C
Pile D
Pile reveals below!
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Are you ready?!
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PILE A
Your Sexual Energy: 10 of Wands & 9 of Cups
You are a very sweet lover. You are someone that’s happy to put hard work into sex, and you won’t give up until your partner is pleased. You’re willing to push yourself to the limit for your partner’s pleasure. You’re very much a giver, not a taker, and are just as happy in the end whether you do or don't reach climax. You just love to be the reason your partner is in ecstasy. Giving sexually brings you so much pleasure. You look forward to the next time you can play with your partner, sharing with them your gratitude and satisfaction. You tend to be fun and lighthearted in bed, smiling and giggling while you play. You’re happy to fulfill your partner’s fantasies, and often bring your own into the mix. If you do not already, talk about your deepest desires with your partner and find ways to make them a reality.
Your Sexual Power: The Hanged Man
You like to wait things out and let your partner come to you. You’re not worried about when the next time is going to be; you’re at peace knowing that you can pick and choose. You may also like to withhold sex and be a bit of a tease, building up tension between you and your partner. You know how to make them want you even more just by hanging back. This card can point to enjoying bondage, being tied up or tying up your partner consensually.
Messages from your Partner: Knight of Wands
I am obsessed with the way you move.
I’m going to show you the time of your life.
I want us to freely express our sexual desires to one another– let’s get adventurous!
I’m here for a fun time, not a long time. Let’s savor this.
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PILE B
Your Sexual Energy: 2 of Wands & Queen of Pentacles
You enjoy thinking of sex and daydream about potential partners. Your mind often wanders over to what you want to do/what you want done to you. You take a thoughtful approach to choosing your partner, so you weigh your options and can be picky. You’re independent, and prefer not to complicate things. You know exactly what you like and are a master of your own body, but every now and then, you’d like to share this pleasure with a partner. You look for high passion when you connect sexually, and are willing to step outside your comfort zone to find it every now and then. You are comfortable in your skin, and feel comfortable sharing your body with the right person. The way you touch and move is magic. Sex to you is a way to celebrate your physical body, and you make it a memorable experience for all involved.
Your Sexual Power: 4 of Swords
You’re good at creating a comfortable environment, and making your partner comfortable, as well. Sex can be a restorative experience for you. You likely enjoy solo play just as much, if not more, than sex with a partner. When you’re done, you want to keep things chill, and maybe just fall asleep into sweet dreams.
Messages from your Partner: The Fool
I want to show you some new things.
We can be friends with benefits, if you want.
I am full of surprises for you.
Let's go for it!
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PILE C
Your Sexual Energy: Strength & 5 of Cups
This is likely a period of time where you’re less interested in sex. You may be focused on processing some emotions. Spirit advises you to take space to work things out on your own. What’s coming through is that you’re more focused now on building yourself up & rediscovering your personal power, before giving any more of your sexual energy away. You now have this awareness, and hold off from hooking up with anyone else just yet. Though your body is craving sexual connection, you're willing to hold off for a healthy emotional connection or for a time when you feel fully present. You’ll be getting back into the world when you’re ready, there is no rush. Continue to be patient with yourself and others. Harness those hot, steamy emotions to use as fuel when the time is right.
Your Sexual Power: Knight of Cups
You are very flirty, and follow your heart when someone has caught your attention. Right now, you may be awakening to sexual desires that you were not previously aware of. You are feeling more adventurous and creative with how you want to express your sexuality. You enjoy dressing up to entice and please both yourself and your partner. You spoil them with affection and positive treatment. At your core, you are a romantic. You grow almost obsessed when you’re with someone, and this emotion drives you to give it to them real good. You deliver exactly what you say you will; you know how to keep a promise.
Messages from your Partner: Page of Pentacles
I am willing to go the extra mile to please you.
We can go slow and steady.
I want you and only you.
You can teach me what you like/want, and I will do it for you.
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PILE D
Your Sexual energy: 6 of Swords & Ace of Swords
In the past, sexuality has been a more difficult topic for you. You’re coming out of a period of not thinking about it or not desiring it– you were happier on your own. But, now things are shifting in your life, and you’re starting to open back up to the idea of being intimate in this way. Before going into sex with a partner, you require a mental connection. Just going right into it doesn’t really appeal to you. You're attracted to a great mind. Communication is also very important in order to make spicy time enjoyable for you. You must establish trust and have clear boundaries with a partner. You like to know who you’re hooking up with, one night stands or randoms are not your thing.
You likely crave control, and have a more dominant leaning energy. If you didn’t know this about yourself, you enjoy the feeling of power. Your sexual play can become quite kinky and, with the right partner, even (consensually) borderline violent. You are in touch with your most animal desires, and want the full-blown thing. Look at the imagery of the ace of swords in a more abstract way... wink! (Sword in the crown.)
Your Sexual Power: The Lovers
You have love for yourself and your physical body. You can enjoy a physical relationship without the need for long-term commitments. You can match rhythm and get in sync easily with a partner. Your self love and ability to create solid boundaries leads to wonderful connections, lots of fun, and euphoric release. To your partner, you're sweet and affectionate. You know just how to read them for the right timing to blow their mind.
Additionally, this card is often an indication that you have a few options for potential partners right now.
Messages from your Partner: 6 of Pentacles
I want you to make me beg for it.
Tell me what to do, boss me around in the bedroom.
I can give you what you need.
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